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Your ‘Path in Life’

 

This is a very useful technique that allows the therapist (as well as YOU if you are working on yourself) to gain frank personal information from the client without running the risk of causing embarrassment by asking directly, or having the client respond with ‘constructed’ misleading answers.

 

For ease of use, the second person perspective shall be used, making it easier if the questions are to be recorded.

 

Close their eyes and  imagine the scenes described, reporting back to each question as to what you imagine.  If you are working on yourself, it is helpful for you to record the following questions, leaving appropriate gaps – only a few seconds – AFTER each question.

 

1.                  Imagine standing on a path, any path that just comes to your mind’s eye.

2.                  Imagine feeling the surface of the path with your foot and to note if it’s a rough or smooth surface (Interpretation: ‘is your life rough or smooth?’)

3.                  Is the path narrow or broad (how wide is it?)?  (Interpretation: ‘ in life do you feel restricted, hemmed in, or do you feel freer with choice and flexibility in life’.   The narrower the path the greater the feeling of being  restricted or hemmed in even trapped by some unacceptable situation, by some awful partner, a disliked job, financial difficulties, accommodation problems or the like.  With the broader path indicating more freedom in life.)

4.                  Look to the LEFT of the path and note what is seen.  Following this by asking what is seen to the RIGHT.  (Interpretation:  you are noting how you see yourself in life.  Something dangerous, threatening or a barrier in life will be responded to with a description of a wall, cliff edge, fence, hedge or channel, with the reverse and more positive  mental attitude being expressed by noticing fields or grass, flowers and the like.  The 2 sides may be noted as similar or different.  Where there is a contrast between a positive report and a negative one, you are saying you see yourself to be okay in life, but for ‘this thing’ represented by the negative response.)

5.                  Now look at the path ahead, and report if it seems straight, curved or twisting.  (Interpretation: do you feel your future is straight forward and predictable = the straight forward path ahead.  Changeable or less predictable, the curved path ahead, or uncertain unpredictability, hazardous or lacking security, the twisting path.

6.                  Imagine moving forward along this path until you enter a wood, and note if, for the wood, it is dark or light when you’re inside it.  (Interpretation:  to your subconscious the wood represents how your mind feels.  Dark for depression, worry or concern, with a lighter wood for the opposite state of mind.)

7.                  Look around the wood and note if there is any part or area of the wood which seems dark, intimidating or threatening.  (Interpretation:  is there something in your mind that concerns you, or is of great concern.  The dark intimidation or threatening part  representing this mental concern, and with no response indicating nothing in particular of subconscious concern.  A dark wood with no perceived particular negative area representing a general negative feeling, with a light wood with a negative area representing a more positive state of mind ‘but for this thing’.  However, if you are even a tad nervous you may notice a dark wood without an intimidating area as an extension of your repression, ie.  “I feel concerned but cannot focus in on that particular concern”. )

8.                  If you have noted a dark wood, or an intimidating area, restore yourself to neutrality by suggesting / thinking / telling yourself that the wood is comfortable or that you are perfectly ok in it.

9.                  Imagine you see a key on the path, notice the colour of the key.  Would you pick it up or leave it?  (Interpretation:  colour of key represents ambition in life; dull, rusty key  = little, no real ambition, a silver key representing  ambition, a golden key = significant ambition, with a bright, shining gold key = great ambition.  The key being picked up or left represents determination to pursue ambition tendency, with picked up rusty or dull key indicating a rather negative attitude “I’ll have to keep trying I suppose!”, and that key left on the path = more indicating “What’s the use of trying?”.)

10.             Keep going forward until you find water crossing the path, any water, a stream, river or a muddy puddle as examples, notice what you imagine the water as like.  (Interpretation:  the water represents your sex drive and your reactions or attitude towards sex, the greater the water volume the greater the sex drive.  With the clearer water representing the more straightforward and uninhibited feeling to sexual matters.  Muddy represents ‘muddy’ sexual feelings; stones or rocks in the water representing some sexual misgivings or negative sexual experiences of past, present or future.  The water appearing to one side of the path = sexual matters in limbo at present.)

11.             Can you cross the water, or pass it.  (Interpretation: can you suspend your sexual activities, do without sex or would that be difficult or even impossible.  The degree of difficulty in passing or crossing the water represents your attitude to this, and in short, how important sex is to you.)

12.             If you feel it is impossible to cross the water, by jumping it, swimming or wading across, you are reporting that your sex life is essential to them, so suggest that there is a bridge, or that  magically you find yourself on the path beyond the water.  When you have crossed the water, in whatever way,  imagine that as you continue along the path you reach a point where it bends.  (Interpretation:  your subconscious will be brought to think of some threatening or dangerous concept that could occur in life, and preparing your mind for a response to the next step.)

13.             Imagine, when you have walked round the bend, that there is in front of you a wall, built right across their path, and then ask how high the wall is.  (Interpretation:  the wall represents the termination of life, and the higher the wall the greater the threat of life’s end concerns the client, and the smaller the wall the less.)

14.             Could you climb the wall, or get over it in some way.  (Interpretation: can you come to terms with dying?  How easily?  The answers being given by the degree of difficulties in crossing the wall.) 

15.             If you are unable to cross the wall, suggest there is a hole in it that you can look through.  In either case of crossing the wall OR looking through it, what do you see on the other side? (Interpretation:  a house, field, grass or some attractive feature = believes in an after-life – though they may not be aware of this.  Blackness or a sheer drop indicates a rejection to the concept of any after-life, together with an attitude to death as a final disaster.  The report that on the other side of the wall the path continues as before, indicates that you have some concept of some existence after dying, but are vague and unsure what that existence is, and is open minded to speculation.)

 

 

This exercise, which could take as long as 15minutes lends itself to being repeated every 6months or so.  Or if using it with a client – at the beginning of the first, and at the and of the last, session.

 

 

 

 


Should you wish to use any of the techniques or procedures described on these pages,  you accept full responsibility for your own emotional, psychological, mental, physical and spiritual wellbeing and health. 

 

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